Poor or Righteous Husband?

People say money doesn’t buy happiness. But money can certainly cause tension and stress when you want to get marry in with a man who’s not financially strong as you are, Does it really matter for you?

What if you get marry with a man who’s not financially enough strong but good in everything what you are looking for? Absolutely money is playing a big role for survival and everything you need. However, your almighty Allaah has good plan for you and your spouse. 

If a man is religiously-committed and of good character, who always treats you like a queen or his soulmate, there is nothing wrong with you marrying him, even if he is from middle class family or not well settled, Don’t think what people will say and comments, you don’t have to please people but your almighty Allaah, 

Poverty is nothing to be ashamed of, because wealth comes and goes, and a poor man may become rich. Allaah says. A Righteous Husband can make A woman feel like a Queen! 

Allah advices to spouse in Quran that live honorably with one another and never dislike each other just because of a slight behavior which you may dislike in him/her, it is possible that for some time God brings through it a great deal of good.

I do understand that it’s quite difficult to make your guardian ready for this and for your happiness but do remember and make you guardian understand that compatibility is not the matter of money and getting marry with a  poor man is piety and righteous deeds.

If a woman strives to get married and makes the mahr easy, it is a sign of wisdom and good thinking on her part. We ask Allaah to make things easy for you and to guide you to the right path. Small change in your life will bring huge change in your destiny in the world and hereafter. 

And Allaah knows best.